i would like to know, what's community ? it seems to me that catering to a person's need is based on what i think the person's need is and not what the person truly needs.
i'll get straight to the point, i dun like it when someone say "who would like it?", "who would find that interesting?"
it just irks me, i find it hard to bear cause though the activity may seem boring to me, it may not seem so for another person.
i personally enjoy cooking, enjoy taking care of people. And i find that through volunteer work, i can form a connection with others, however, there are also people who put me down saying "if the person is new here, you think they will be willing to just follow along or take part actively ?"
when asked for suggestions for outings, people always look towards the common areas such as beach, zoo, bird park, sentosa etc... but the ideas that come to my mind is places like museums, hill tops, garden ...
i get that i am different, but i dun get it when others can so selfishly stick to their own ideas and not be willing to accept difference.
it irks me, i've said it before, but up till now, no changes, it still irks me